There was time when, I was a kid thought about having atleast few friends who are there for my me for who I am and not for the money/some stupid selfish stuff.. I should say that I am not 100% successful in that thought… I still have frends who like to listen the gud and bad frm me… but as we know priorities change in life as we move on.. and we have to move on with the changing priorities.. this happens especially with my frens who are gals… and planning starts when they get engaged and implements when this marriage thing comes to place. OK, here ppl will tend to say this is not the same with current gen gals.. but I don see any difference, sudden isolation, sudden privacy.. it all happens.. may be am not sure why this happens since I am still not into any traps ๐Ÿ™‚ but no idea why this happens.


Situation 1:

me: hey hi wats up? hows married life?

she: yup, life is great…

me: so wat plans next..?

she: jus thinking over.. hey looks like am getting a cal frm husband we wil talk later.

me: bye (she already left!) ๐Ÿ˜ฆ


Situation 2:

me: hey hi wats up? hows married life?

he: life is great ya.. she is one great gal I would die to hav in my life..

me: thats kool man.. so u fellas having a great time.. ๐Ÿ™‚

he: yup maam, why dont u come home this sunday or we will meetup in some restaurant.. I was telling to her abt u and she was interested in meeting u..

me: sure boss.. we wil plan for it.. catch ya later.. bye bye

he: hey bye so soon.. ok, be in touch.. cal up to update the plans ok..? ๐Ÿ™‚ bye!


I have known both he and she in the same perspective and they used to call up every now and then for vetti chat and gossips and ofcourse computer reboot issues ๐Ÿ˜‰ But finally looks like “he” is having some time for friends and “shes” though seem to be free is always busy. May be “shes” are more interested in meeting their husband’s friends than their own pals.. no idea why there is a sudden shift.. I don blame she or he.. but I don get the point behind it..